Finding Your Path in the World of Adult Entertainment

What if stepping into the world of adult entertainment could be the most liberating decision you ever make? Join us for a bold conversation as we explore a listener's journey from admiring gay porn to contemplating a career in it. We tackle Steve's concerns head-on, navigating the tricky waters of family perceptions and privacy in the adult industry. From the strategic use of pseudonyms to the burgeoning opportunities on platforms like OnlyFans, we offer Steve—and anyone else considering a similar path—practical insights to protect their personal identity while pursuing their passions.

Our candid chat goes beyond just the how-tos, as we examine the potential risks and rewards of such a career move. Pondering the dynamics of personal and professional boundaries, we share advice on starting small, building a following, and finding the right avenues, like casting agencies or unique project opportunities. Whether you're contemplating your own journey or simply enjoy the thrill of honest, unfiltered discussions, this episode is packed with real-world advice and thought-provoking insights.

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:05

hey, dave. Yes, matt, are you ready for a quickie? I'm ready for a quick rumble, if that's what you want I'm talking about a quick chat, oh, okay, let's go for it, then let's do it.

Speaker 2: 0:19

You're listening to the fully grown homos with matt and dave and now we're gonna hand over to dave. Dave's got a listener that's emailed us in a question. If you want to email us in a question, you can email us at fullygrownhomospodcast at gmailcom okay.

Speaker 1: 0:35

So, matt, I've got this email here from a guy called steve from newcastle, and he basically wants to know uh well, should I say he actually says that he enjoys watching gay porn. So he wants to know if it's safe and, basically, um, whether or not it's advisable for him to maybe get into gay porn. Now he's bisexual, um, and he's been looking at gay porn for many years, um, but he's getting to the point where he's getting really turned on by all, to the point where he actually wants to, um, take part and be a porn star. But his downside to that is he's worried how he's going to be perceived from his family and his friends if they ever get to watch any of these films that he wants to produce. So he's basically, basically asked us, you know, for advice on whether or not he should do it and, if so, what path he should take. And basically, you know, have we got any experience that we can pass on to him?

Speaker 2: 1:34

So first port of call there pseudonym Steve, steve, pseudonym Don't ever go under your own name, otherwise your family and friends will definitely find you. But also remember, if you're doing gay porn, you're out Presumably you're out as bisexual to your family and friends, because you've actually written it quite confidently in the email. So anyone that's actually looking at a gay website or on twitter, um, which is where a lot of the people start their actual porn careers porn careers with home movies and things like that and then they may be discovered if they're actually really good at what they do, um, and then get picked up by an agency or something like that. But if somebody's actually looking for that kind of imagery, then they stumble across you. They're not going to be too horrified as such, because I don't think your mum is going to be stumbling through X and then accidentally find gay porn.

Speaker 2: 2:42

Her browser history is not necessarily going to be targeted towards gay porn, so I wouldn't be too worried about your family and friends finding you. I'd potentially be more worried about somebody sending a video to your family and friends, which has happened in the past. Not to myself, um, but look, if any imagery got sent to my family and friends, they'd go. Yeah, no, thanks, I don't want to watch it um. So, look, I wouldn't be too stressed um go ahead, make as much as you can um share it out on, like I said, x um on hub lots, of, lots of, lots of different things.

Speaker 1: 3:24

so, yeah, again, he hasn't specified his age, so I can't really say how old he is. I don't know what body type he is either. So for me, my advice to him is look, there's so many platforms out there now, such as only fans and just for fans and stuff like that, where you can actually post your own stuff on there. I would basically start with that. Maybe get a few friends of yours that are in the same situation. They're bisexual and they're happy to be filmed, because not everybody is happy to be filmed, unfortunately. Um, you know, um. So for me, steve, I'd say to you yeah, just basically try one thing at a time and if it works and you're getting followers, um, or if you have any sort of like um abilities to find casting agencies, or even just google it and find out whether people are actually doing these sort of things.

Speaker 1: 4:12

There's a lot of things in america where they do, uh, these sort of like um, gay for pay, sort of like programs, or they they make these shows that they pretend that they're picking like people off the streets and pretending that they're straight, but they're really gay, and they turn around and make them sort of like, have sex with a gay person in that situation. So I mean I don't know. I mean I can only go what I've seen on the um, the forums myself. So never having done gay porn or ever wanting to do gay porn, um, is something that I can't really advise you on too much. But you know, like I said, you know there's always these platforms out there and I think you know, if you're brave enough and you know and you're able to navigate through them, then why not? And then just send us a copy so we can have a watch and then we'll be able to give you more feedback, I suppose yeah, yeah, look, I'm happy to view any kind of porn.

Speaker 1: 5:05

you may want to see my way, or, if you, want to come over and visit us and practice some porn sessions. I'm sure that we'd be happy.

Speaker 2: 5:10

I'm also happy to participate in any videos, no problem at all. I'm not shy. I'm not shy at all.

Speaker 1: 5:17

No, you're not, Matthew, but yeah, so yeah, definitely.

Speaker 2: 5:20

Thanks for writing in, steve, and if you want to write us a question, just send an email to fullygrownhomospodcast at gmailcom or contact us via any of our socials. The same Fully Grown Homos Podcast. That's a wrap from us. We've been your Fully Grown Homos and we look forward to opening your mind, your ears and your curiosities. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe, and share our podcast with your curious friends. You can contact us at fullygrownhomospodcast at gmailcom or any of our socials by the same name. Fully Grown Homos Podcast podcast.